Many typical himalayan wants to marry a man from well acustomed family...own lots of jeweleries and have status in the society. Be helpful to the in law family and basically have a happy family. Have children and all those family thing. But the sad thing is that they tends to give up on their own dream...sometimes even on the guy that they love initially. If i were not educated, i would be doing the same thing...but im so fortunate to have family that set education as the highest priority. I am not pointing out these all as negative, but just wanted to express my feelings as a women grown up in the highly restricted culture, where arrange marriage is the most important thing when it comes to marriage. Even being educated girl, i am not objecting arrange marraige, but still i think girl should at least have some right or choice in selecting their life partner. The most important thing is to get marry when you are really ready to make that commitment, as for me I take marriage as a committment. So, its interesting to see that arrange marriage still exist and it tends to have long lasting relationship...and the love tends to grow after...Even my brother got arrange marriage when he already had a girl of his dream...But due to all the family dramas, he end up getting arrange marriage and now he thinks he is the most lucky husband...
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| My brother and his wife... |
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